Unsafe contraceptive methods

If you are not planning a pregnancy, you just need to know about the correct contraception. It’s even more important to know about the wrong contraception and never hope for it. It is about menstrual intercourse and the calendar method of contraception.

Many people believe that once the endometrium is rejected during menstruation, pregnancy cannot occur, because the fetal egg simply has nowhere to attach itself. This is partly true, however, the sperm that penetrated the uterus and tubes are able to maintain their vital functions for up to 6-7 days. If a woman has early ovulation, pregnancy is quite possible. For the same reason, do not rely on a calendar method of contraception.

Also, it is not recommended to have sex during menstruation because of the possibility of infection. The fact is that during menstruation there is a rejection of the functional layer of endometrium and “bare” blood vessels that feed endometrium. This contributes to the introduction of pathogenic microorganisms from the genital tract and the spread of the infectious process.

Will there be a pregnancy? Genuine stories of my clients.

Client question:

Hello, Elvira. I am interested in the topic of pregnancy and children. How soon will I get pregnant, whether there will be kids, how many kids, the sex is not fascinating. We very much want a child, but so far it has not worked out… I am worried.

Designations: K – client M – husband Clients

My answer is:

I see that M’s attitude to the fact that K can’t get pregnant is very negative. In a harsh form, he claims that it is not because of him. And this provokes increased nervousness K, which, of course, does not contribute to good relations in the family. I consider by years:

2010 – at the end of this year K will think that she managed to get pregnant, but her expectations will not be met

2011 – pregnancy will not occur

2012 – doctors (and this is the right decision), they will constantly monitor the health of K until the birth of the child

2013 – conception (in a natural way, although at the moment K is already thinking about artificial insemination), peaceful pregnancy, in the last 4 months of the year – the birth of a child.

2014 – K will think about the birth of a second child

2015 and 2016 – Seek medical attention, procedures related to women’s health. I don’t see a second child for this couple, but! If K had undergone treatment to the end, she could have given birth to a boy in 2017.

Addendum:
Everything in due time. If this couple had had a child earlier (they both wanted it), they would have been oligophrenic. That is, now the Universe is protecting the couple from the birth of an unhealthy child, not punishing them with no children.

The result:
Both spouses were examined by doctors. The wife is okay. K made a diagnosis (I have no right to voice it). I can only say that it is difficult to get pregnant with such a diagnosis, it is necessary to take medicines that reduce testosterone and other overestimated male hormones before pregnancy. And after the onset of pregnancy, the woman should always be in the risk zone and before the birth of the child should lie on the ground. By the promised time the first child was born, healthy and beautiful. Now the couple is thinking about the birth of a second child and plans to do so in 2016.